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RIP Ashley

After reading the latest blog post from "Mental Health @Home" this morning, (blog link at the end of this post), I am so devastated to read that the latest post was to inform us of Ashley's passing.  I have lost a dear friend from my online world who I class as a friend on the same level had I met her in real life. I am so devastated to read of Ashley's passing. This will leave a big hole in the blogging community, as Ashley comments on many blogs giving support, and will be missed by many.  RIP Ashley. You will be missed by many. Xxx My deepest condolences to Ashley's family and friends. Xxx This post below from "Mental Health @ Home" is still currently open as this post goes to air. So please leave your messages left.
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November to December blogging break

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