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Book review: "Finding The Light In Dementia - A Guide For Families, Friends and Caregivers," by Jane M. Mullins

As much as I have some experience on dementia, I always feel there's something new to learn. I came across this book, by accident. "Finding The Light In Dementia - A Guide For Families, Friends and Caregivers," by Jane Mullins, is a book I recommend. This self-help book explains common changes that can occur in dementia, offering valuable approaches, tips and stories.  Also tips on how to care for yourself, as the caregiver. This book has received excellent reviews. Many saying they wish they had this book from the start of their caregiving journey. I totally agree with the reviewers and found this book extremely helpful, even though my situation is different, because my mum is already in a care home, rather than leading up to possibly a care home, as this book is written. The book is in small chapters, with each chapter ending in a summary of what you read in that chapter. The short chapters are ideal for that busy and tired carer, as well as for those who can only take
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